
I can't believe it's been a month since I last posted on our family blog! Each summer, I go into overdrive trying to plan a bunch of fun activities for the kids trying to somehow cram as much as I can into the short eight weeks that I have in an effort to "make up" for the other 41 weeks of the year when I'm working. This summer, I felt especially driven because Emily starts kindergarten in a few weeks and somehow I felt like the years were just slipping away from me.
On the last day of summer for me, I had a bunch of fun activities planned for the day only to be informed by Emily that she didn't want to go out. She just wanted to spend time "hanging out, watching movies, playing games, reading books, and snuggling with me." It was one of those moments where I didn't know whether I should laugh or cry. I wanted to laugh because of the irony - I had totally missed the point, it seems. I wanted to cry because it felt so good to realize that I didn't need to do all of those big things to impress them - what mattered most to them was having those moments with me.
I was having a conversation with a good friend from work about this whole "going back to school" (AKA "work") guilt that I go through about this time every year. She is MUCH wiser than I am and had this to say to me ~ "If your kid knows that he or she is loved without limits and knows that you are in their corner no matter what, then they feel secure and confident about who they are." I just loved it. I was reading
Marci's blog and it sounds like a similar conversation came up during our book club group this month(I wasn't able to make it, and I'm sorry I missed it).
Having said all of that, we couldn't end our summer without one last trip to Chuck E. Cheese. My sister Melinda and her kids have been in town and so we went with them and my parents to play one last time and the kids had a blast!